Smita Acharyya doesn’t want kids.

Never has, never will. Despite her strong feelings, Acharyya,

a 33-year-old Calgary-based filmmaker, says the decision

to forego motherhood is always on her mind.

“I just obsess over it,” she says. “And everybody I know in my age group

also obsesses over it. At our age, all of a sudden you

actually have to make a decision.”

The decision to become a mother is one that fascinates Acharyya and Dominique Keller,

a friend and fellow 33-year-old filmmaker.

Which is why it’s the subject of their latest project, called The Baby Cliff.

Keller and Acharyya are about to produce 13 short films–

“a cross between Kids in the Hall and Sex in the City”–based upon one woman’s decision

“to take the plunge into mother-hood,” as explained on their blog,thebabycliff.com.

The series will track Gloria Gasper, a 30-something woman

who is wrestling with the decision, and her partner, Jay Majumdar.

But this isn’t a typical filmmaking project. Keller and Acharyya

want to make their films interactive.

So, they’re asking for input from their online audience on everything from storylines

and characters to casting the actors.

They won’t begin filming the first film until September, but the blog is up and running.

To kick-start the discussions, the women are writing about their own Baby Cliff issues.

“The Baby Cliff asks: when did motherhood stop being the next natural step for women

and instead become this perilous cliff that some of us are perched on the edge of and

others have jumped off of?” says Keller.

“It’s become this thing, this motherhood. It’s a giant lifestyle choice.”

And Keller is certainly perched. A self-described “expert in reproductive procrastination,”

she and her boyfriend are talking a lot about the kids issue these days.

When she was young, she wanted them. In her 20s, not so much. Now, it’s a different story.

“I’m definitely hearing that biological clock going, ‘tick, tick, tick,’ ” she says.

“But if I had to choose my timeline, it would be sometime 10 or 15 years from now,

which is not an option.”Kids aren’t necessarily the right choice right now for Keller and Acharyya

for a variety of reasons: their careers are taking off, they like their freedom, and, let’s face it,

kids change things.  Acharyya, who has been married for more than six years, says she

and her husband are happy the way things are.

Plus, she’s not so sure she’d have a mothering instinct. ”

We’re, like, terrible parents to our cats,” she says with a laugh.

Karen Bridson is happy to see women approaching the motherhood issue with their eyes wide open.

Bridson is a mother and the author of Stunned: The New Generation of Women Having Babies,

Getting Angry, and Creating a Mother’s Movement, which hits store shelves in May.

“I called my book ‘Stunned’ because I was absolutely stunned (when I gave birth),” says Bridson.

“Women, wake up, because holy crap–it’s such a shock. We romanticize motherhood and women aren’t

honest with other women about what’s coming.”

Though she does not regret having her son, who is six, she says she would not want to

jump off The Baby Cliff again. “I really like my life and I don’t want it to change again.”

Natasha Barran also enjoys her lifestyle.

The 32-year-old former Calgarian lives in Los Angeles and works as a singer, dancer and actor.

She was happy to come across The Baby Cliff blog and to see that there are other women

who have said “no” to motherhood.

“I love kids,” she says. “I’m just not interested in having any for myself. Ever.”

Barran says her boyfriend does want kids, so they avoid the topic. She says she receives many questions –

and judgments–about her decision, from family, friends and even strangers.

Case in point: a random lady once told her it was her duty as a woman to have children.

“It’s weird. People feel the need to convince you that you’re wrong,” she says.

Keller and Acharyya say for all those mothers who try to bring them around to the idea

of having kids, there are plenty who voice their support on the blog.

And the filmmakers are considering it all as they conceive their plot.

As for whether or not working on these films will affect Keller’s own decision to conceive,

that remains to be seen.

“It’s really making me think about it a lot,” she says.

“Still, even though I’m making this project, I have no solutions and every

possibility seems terrifying.”

mmagnan@theherald.canwest.com